What Does Your Favorite Color Say About Your Sexuality?

Swirling sensual colors of love and passion

Most of us know that a person’s favorite color often reveals a lot about their personality, nature, likes, and dislikes. However, not many know that one’s favorite color can give important clues about their sex life or sexuality.

Now, most might claim that they do not have a favorite color. That all colors are the same to them. But if you take a look around you, and especially at your wardrobe, you will see that you are always attracted to the same colors over and over. You might even see the same patterns, textures, and colors repeating in your living room, closet, and other areas. These are important clues to help you decide your favorite color, in case you haven’t already.

Here are some of the most popular colors and what they indicate about your sexuality:


Black is a sexy and alluring color associated with power and elegance. According to color psychology, people who like the color black may be prone to have secret affairs and fantasies. It also indicates that the person is mysterious, stylish, and authoritarian. People who like the color black may also want to dominate the bedroom. They are often strong and stable people who like to control their partners.

If your favorite color is black, you are likely not an open book, and your partner may need to work very hard to peel those layers. However, you have the charm to leave your lovers coming back for more.


Passionate flamenco dancer in red

Red is considered one of the most sensual colors, and people who love red are often easy to please and stimulate. No other color ignites passion, romance, and lust as much as red does. The very fact that this color increases blood pressure indicates that it is sexually stimulating and arousing.

Brides in China and India often wear red on their first night to excite their partners. Red foods like strawberries and red wine are also associated with sexual pleasure, and if you paint your bedroom walls red, you will always be in the mood.

Red lovers will always be ready to rock the night, but their temper flare-ups can also cause problems. A good partner should be able to reign in this passion and power that red lovers have.


Blue indicates a person who is calm, peace-loving, and often distant. It is a cold and lonely color that could mean a lackluster or maybe even boring sex life.

People who love blue make excellent partners, though. They are honest, stable, dependable, and highly loyal. Blue lovers may often come across as cold and distant. They usually take some time to warm up to their dates or potential partners, but it is all worth it in the long run. These are the people who are very much in control of their emotions.

Bedrooms painted in blue promote calm and relaxation.


Woman wearing a pink dress in a rose garden

Pink is another popular sensual color. It is a distant cousin of red when it comes to sexuality. However, where red ignites passion and lust, pink is all about romance.

Pink lovers are very loving and caring. They will go out of their way to make their partner feel good. They are born romantics and adore caring for and nurturing their partners.

Men who like pinks tend to be spendthrifts, though. So wives of such men should beware of that. Often, pink lovers are also slightly immature when it comes to sex.


Yellow is a happy color. People who love it are naturally optimistic and hopeful. That makes them fun and easy to be with. They make warm, cheerful, and intellectually stimulating lovers. Yellow lovers are also attractive and pleasant.

On the downside, this color could sometimes indicate instability and eccentricity. People who love yellow are often known for bouts of whims and spontaneity in the bedroom.


Green is a harmonious, fresh, and fertile color. These lovers want to make their partners feel safe and protected. Just being with such a lover can heal your body and mind. The different shades of green are usually associated with masculinity, conservativeness, balance, and harmony.

While it is usually a nurturing and compassionate color, it could sometimes lead to jealousy, envy, and selfishness among partners. Green could also indicate a lack of experience in the bedroom.


Woman in an orange outfit dancing on the bed

An orange lover is likely to be a warm, vibrant, and flamboyant one. The color also indicates a lover who is a risk taker – extroverted and uninhibited in the bed. They are willing to try out new things in the bedroom and can make for enthusiastic, encouraging, and stimulating partners. Orange also denotes feminine energy and the energy of creation.

On the downside, orange lovers are known to be exhibitionists, overbearing, and overly dependent on their partners.


Purple combines the stability of blue and the passion of red. However, it is also considered a sexually deprived color or a color of sexual frustration, which could be attributed to its historical significance as a color of royalty, wisdom, dignity, mystery, and magic. People who love purple sometimes have extravagant lifestyles and live in a dream world.

Lighter shades of purple for bedrooms may signify romance, while darker shades can frustrate or cause problems that may prevent sexual enjoyment.


White lovers are pure, virginal, and loyal. They are often submissive as they love maintaining peace and think they can do so by pleasing their partner.

As far as sexuality is concerned, white lovers tend to be conservative. They might also view sex as dirty or germy and insist on showering before lovemaking. Most white lovers would be shy in showing affection in public places.

Now you know what your favorite color says about your love life.